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“It’s our job to find books for our kids to read. It’s not the school’s.” – Best Selling Author James Patterson
Welcome to the third installment of Reasons to Read. In the first two weeks, we discussed Getting in Touch With Your Inner Casting Director and Reasons to Read – Time Travel, Bad Tv & Sex Tapes.
I love to read. My parents taught me at an early age the joys of reading. My two oldest children love to read, and it is just as important for me to show my two youngest children the joys of opening a terrific book and letting the writer take you on a journey, and into a world, that before now, you were unable to enter.
Unfortunately, many, many parents don’t spend that quality time with their children.
This past Wednesday I happened to walk past the television while the Today Show was on. Al Roker was interviewing best-selling author James Patterson when the topic changed from promoting his latest Alex Cross novel to a cause Patterson has championed – getting children to read.
“We know we are supposed to teach the child how to ride a bike, or how to throw a baseball, but we don’t think, we have to go out and find books for them.”
Wow! Right there on national television a mega-selling author stated it best.
Why do we as parents think it is the public schools system to teach our children? Why is the most significant responsibility of parenting – the teaching of our children – delegated to someone else? I don’t know about you, but I don’t want my children’s future determined by how well they are taught by someone else. Nothing against teachers – my Mom was one.
We spend time teaching our kids to ride bikes, roller-skate, throw baseball’s and footballs, yet it escapes our thinking that perhaps we should spend just as much time at the library or bookstore picking out notable books for them to read. We spend time picking out video games for our children. For the cost of one video came we could buy four or five books instead.
My youngest daughter loves to read. My son, well, not so much. I have struggled to come up books that he might find appealing. Books, other than Diary of a Wimpy Kid, are hard to find, and hold his interest.
Watching the interview with Patterson led me to a startling revelation. Seems that while not writing the next best-seller, Patterson has started a website specifically designed to solve this problem.
I quickly went to the web site: http://www.readkiddoread.com
On the home page, it states, “Something told you the only way to get kids to read was to give them great books, cool books, books they would absolutely, positively love. I believe we have gathered the crème de la crème of such reading right here. These are very special books that kids will gobble up and ask for more. If your kids get a few of these books under their belts they’ll be well on their way to becoming readers for life. I promise you.”
Reading lists are broken up into four categories:
0-8 Great Illustrated Books 6 & Up Great Transitional Books 8 & Up Great Pageturners 10 & Up Great Advanced Reads
Within each category are four subcategories broken down into genres and more defined age groups with each category containing at least twenty-five books titles.
I spent quite a bit of time at the web site, scanning over book tiles and descriptions. You could get lost in time. My prayers were answered. I have an entire arsenal of books to expose to my children. I even see numerous options that might, just might, turn my son into a reader.
If you are a parent, aunt, uncle, grandparent, or mentor to a child, check out the web site. Let others in your circle of friends know about it.
After all, it is our job, and not the schools system, to teach our children well.
Very well said, Tim. And most of what you’ve said here applies to other life skills in addition to reading. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you Diane. I agree.
Terrific post, Tim. I’m fortunate in that my parents instilled a love for literature early on as well. I’m a fan of Patterson’s outreach and haven’t visited the site for ages. Thanks for the reminder! He gave a great interview on the topic on NPR…I’ll see if I can find the podcast.
Reading and books are the best holiday, and anytime, gifts…no question. Thanks for making light of this.
Thank you August. I hope readers will do a little holiday shopping from the web site or at least get some ideas on book titles. Books do make great presents and they don’t bankrupt a family budget.
Tim, You are such a great father! When I was teaching I would tell the parents of my students that the one thing they could do to help their child was to read to them for 20 minutes every day. I don’t think many of them took my advice. Most of the parents were non readers. A few of my students are doing great, but many of them are in jail. It is so refreshing to see a parent that truly cares about their child. Your children are blessed. It is your job to guide them to the joys of reading, but it is also the job of the schools.Thank you and James Patterson for caring. Your Crazy Aunt Linda
I’m sure you put a lot of heart and soul into teaching your students and you have to be heartbroken when they take the wrong roads and end up in jail. Because of people like you and your sister our family has always enjoyed reading because our parents spent the time with us as children and cared enough to show us the joys.
I love that you posted this. I wholeheartedly agree! My mom read to me growing up and I was a voracious reader throughout school and still today. It always amazes me when I’m sitting in a sales meeting and we go over a new training; if we’re asked to around the room and each read a paragraph, there are still many individuals who are not very fluent readers. I thank my family for making books available, going to the library, and reading aloud to each other. I see the benefits in my niece and nephews family. When I called my 10 year old niece to wish her happy birthday, the girl was so excited she got like 20 books for her birthday! LOL. But her parents read to her and her brother before bed every night, and they also read a variety of books, so she gets exposed to history books that are age appropriate and captivating, science books, and your popular fantasy series like Percy Jackson and Harry Potter. Not only will reading with your kids inspire them to read more, but they are going to benefit and have that increased literacy. Yay reading! Have I cheered enough about how great books are? They’re awesome!
Jess, we are sooooo lucky to have parents that showed us what a gift reading can be. And it doesn’t just have to be a parent to show a child the way. Aunts, uncles, grandparents can all play a role in raising our children to enjoy the benefits of reading.
Great and important post! I would also recommend Jon Scieszka’s website, http://www.guysread.com. He has worked specifically to get boys interested (and KEEP them interested) in reading. Jim Trelease’s website also has great resources for both genders. He’s the one who wrote The Read-Aloud Handbook.
You are so right though. It’s up to the parents to engender that love of reading and keep the fire burning within our kids.
Julie, thank you for the heads up on the web site. I will check it out and maybe tie the site into a future blog. Thank you for sharing the info!
Tim, I hope that we can teach our children to appreciate and enjoy the journey of a book–and of art in general. Getting caught up in the poetry of language and entering another world is the best part of reading. If we want to raise children who come up with creative solutions–whether as writers, scientists, engineers, doctors, or teachers–we need to nurture children’s creativity. Parents have an important role to play in that. Good post!
I agree 100%!!!
I think learning to read when you’re two and a half helps…but I’m glad you always drove us to keep reading!
I agree. The majority of books my kids have read were the ones I especially picked out for them whether at trips to the library or at bookstores for birthday and holiday gifts. We always did story time at the library and even my own made up mommy reading club, but mostly it was because I love books,love to read. I wanted them to feel the same way i do about books, but still I wouldn’t call either of my children readers. They don’t gravitate toward books like I do, no matter how much I tried. So I wonder how much of it is taught and how much of it is nature?
My mother read to me as a child as well, but it was many, many years later that I rediscovered the joys. It was the right book at the right time. I think once the seed is planted it will never go away. Some of us (me) just take more time to see the light than others. Now my bookshelves overflow with books and I average one novel a week, sometimes more.
Tim, I didn’t know about James Patterson’s Readkiddoread.com site. Now that I’ve visited it, I almost wish I still had kids at home. What a great range of books in every category!Luckily, I have nephews.
It is a great web site! After Patterson’s visit on the Today Show I went straight to the internet and found it. Next thing I knew and hour had gone by and many items added to my children’s Christmas lists.
Great post. I’m finding it’s much harder to entice my boys to read than it is my girl. It has to be just the right book for the right age…CAN’T WAIT to go through these lists!!
As a homeschooling momma, I’m always on the look-out for stuff like this. Thanks bunches, Tim!
Also check out the website Julie recommended for boys…you might find some great ideas there as well!
This was a wonderful post Tim!
Now if I could only shrink my two sons back to when they were little guys (which as a mom I would do in a heartbeat!)
I had no idea that James Patterson was involved in something like this. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Karen and a bigger thanks for all your support!
What a fabulous website and post, Tim! My son loves to read, but like others have said, it needs to be just the right book. Once he finds a series he likes, he’ll devour all the books, but then he’ll have a dry spell until something grabs him. It’s so frustrating! My daughter, on the other hand, will read anything. She’s much more well-read than I am.
Julie brought a web site to my attention: http://www.guysread.com
Maybe you can find some undiscovered gems for your son there, worth a shot.
I agree 100%…parents need to take more control over what their kids are learning. This a tough world to grow up in. Do we really want to send them out in the world someday embracing our values, or those of virtual strangers? We need to be very involved in their lives…especially when it comes to the information they’re taking in. Because once it’s in there, it’s in there to stay.
How nice to know that celebrities like James Patterson are advocating reading. And going the extra mile to provide resources to make it easier on parents to find appropriate books. Even nicer? Parents like you, Tim, who know how vital a love of reading is, and do whatever is necessary to instill a love for stories in your kids. 🙂
I really can get lost on the Patterson web site. I hope to find many Christmas ideas for my children. I’ve gone to the bookstore thousands of times and feel completely lost when trying to find books for my children. His web site really breaks it down nicely and makes it much easier to sort through it all. And thank you for your kind words!
I’m a big advocate of parents teaching their children to read. This is a great post, Tim, and like Pat, I wish my children were still young so I could share the books on James site with them. Thank you for the link. I’ll definitely be passing it on.
Thank you Sheila. It is a great sight for everyone to browse.
Tim, this is absolutely awesome! I got so annoyed trying to find something that my kids would read that I actually started to write my own kids novels for them… only to find out that publishers won’t go for them because I didn’t put girls in them. Go figure.
I will definitely look into this, though. Thanks so much!
Great resources Tim! I have been there and back again with my son. We’ve found some great books that he absolutely loves, but he still won’t read them past the twenty minutes required by school homework each day. He’ll tell me every day how much he loves the book he’s reading, but refuses to pick it up on his own time. *sigh* But I haven’t given up!
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Tim, I saw James Patterson give a talk at RWA once and someone asked him “what books he thought people should read.” It’s one of those questions that I never understand but his answer stayed with me:
“I think people should read whatever is going to make them read more. If that’s comic books, or great literature, fine. As long as they KEEP reading.”
Great post!
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